Visiting Teaching Message (Mar '11)

"Under the Priesthood and after the Pattern of the Priesthood", Ensign/Liahona, March 2011

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Study this material and, as appropriate, discuss it with the sisters you visit. Use the questions to help you strengthen your sisters and to make Relief Society an active part of your own life.

My dear sisters, how blessed we are! Not only are we members of the Church, but we are also members of Relief Society—“the Lord’s organization for women.” 1 Relief Society is evidence of God’s love for His daughters.

Doesn’t your heart thrill as you recall the exciting beginnings of this society? On March 17, 1842, the Prophet Joseph Smith organized the sisters “under the priesthood after the pattern of the priesthood.” 2

To be organized “under the priesthood” gave sisters authority and direction. Eliza R. Snow, second Relief Society general president, taught that Relief Society “cannot exist without the Priesthood, from the fact that it derives all its authority and influence from that source.” 3 Elder Dallin H. Oaks of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles explained, “The authority to be exercised by the officers and teachers of the Relief Society … was the authority that would flow to them through their organizational connection with The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and through their individual setting apart under the hands of the priesthood leaders by whom they were called.” 4

To be organized “after the pattern of the priesthood” gave sisters sacred responsibilities. Julie B. Beck, Relief Society general president, explained: “We operate in the manner of the priesthood—which means that we seek, receive, and act on revelation; make decisions in councils; and concern ourselves with caring for individuals one by one. Ours is the priesthood purpose to prepare ourselves for the blessings of eternal life by making and keeping covenants. Therefore, like our brethren who hold the priesthood, ours is a work of salvation, service, and becoming a holy people.” 5

Barbara Thompson, second counselor in the Relief Society general presidency.
From the Scriptures

  • 1 Corinthians 11:11; "Nevertheless neither is the man without the woman, neither the woman without the man, in the Lord."

  • Doctrine and Covenants 25:3; "Behold, thy sins are forgiven thee, and thou art an elect lady, whom I have called."

  • Doctrine and Covenants 121:36–46; 36That the rights of the priesthood are inseparably connected with the powers of heaven, and that the powers of heaven cannot be controlled nor handled only upon the principles of righteousness. 37. That they may be conferred upon us, it is true; but when we undertake to cover our sins, or to gratify our pride, our vain ambition, or to exercise control or dominion or compulsion upon the souls of the children of men, in any degree of unrighteousness, behold, the heavens withdraw themselves; the Spirit of the Lord is grieved; and when it is withdrawn, Amen to the priesthood or the authority of that man. 38. Behold, ere he is aware, he is left unto himself, to kick against the pricks, to persecute the saints, and to fight against God. 39. We have learned by sad experience that it is the nature and disposition of almost all men, as soon as they get a little authority, as they suppose, they will immediately begin to exercise unrighteous dominion. 40. Hence many are called, but few are chosen. 41. No power or influence can or ought to be maintained by virtue of the priesthood, only by persuasion, by long-suffering, by gentleness and meekness, and by love unfeigned; 42. By kindness, and pure knowledge, which shall greatly enlarge the soul without hypocrisy, and without guile— 43. Reproving betimes with sharpness, when moved upon by the Holy Ghost; and then showing forth afterwards an increase of love toward him whom thou hast reproved, lest he esteem thee to be his enemy; 44. That he may know that thy faithfulness is stronger than the cords of death. 45. Let thy bowels also be full of charity towards all men, and to the household of faith, and let virtue garnish thy thoughts unceasingly; then shall thy confidence wax strong in the presence of God; and the doctrine of the priesthood shall distil upon thy soul as the dews from heaven. 46. The Holy Ghost shall be thy constant companion, and thy scepter an unchanging scepter of righteousness and truth; and thy dominion shall be an everlasting dominion, and without compulsory means it shall flow unto thee forever and ever.

From Our History
During the construction of the Nauvoo Temple, a group of sisters desired to organize to support the building effort. Eliza R. Snow drafted bylaws for this new group. When she showed them to the Prophet Joseph, he responded: “Tell the sisters their offering is accepted of the Lord, and he has something better for them. … I will organize the women under the priesthood after the pattern of the priesthood.” 6 A short time later, the Prophet told the newly organized Relief Society: “I now turn the key to you in the name of God, and this Society shall rejoice, and knowledge and intelligence shall flow down from this time.” 7 The sisters were expected to rise to a new level of holiness and to prepare for the priesthood ordinances soon to be administered in the temple.

What Can I Do?
1. How can I help the sisters I visit enjoy the blessings of Relief Society’s sacred work?
2. What will I do this month to increase my ability to receive personal revelation?

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1. Spencer W. Kimball, “Relief Society—Its Promise and Potential,” Ensign, Mar. 1976, 4.
2. Joseph Smith, quoted in Sarah Granger Kimball, “Auto-biography,” Woman’s Exponent, Sept. 1, 1883, 51.
3. Eliza R. Snow, “Female Relief Society,” Deseret News, Apr. 22, 1868, 81.
4. Dallin H. Oaks, “The Relief Society and the Church,” Ensign, May 1992, 36.
5. Julie B. Beck, “Relief Society: A Sacred Work,” Liahona and Ensign, Nov. 2009, 111.
6. Joseph Smith, quoted in Kimball, “Auto-biography,” 51.
7. Teachings of Presidents of the Church: Joseph Smith (2007), 451.

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  1. I have a couple of sisters who speak Spanish only. I would like to print out the message in Spanish. I don't want the one printed from the site. I want the version that comes out in the Ensign. I click on "Spanish PDF" but nothing happens. What am I doing wrong?

  2. I have the same problem, Rosalie -- I've been looking for a Spanish version for a while now and I live in Southern UT where we can just buy the Ensigns at the store -- but not in Spanish. So sad since a lot of members only speak Spanish.

  3. Copy and paste the message into select "translate to spanish" and it will do a decent job. There are other free translation programs available online.

  4. Hi Rosalie and KJ,
    I was reading both messages of you, I live in Australia and I'm but i was born in Argentina, I can tell u how to find the VT message in spanish!.
    Go to wich is the official church page fo argentina, when you get there go on the list on the left and click on Sociedad de Socorro(Relief Society),then in the next click on Maestras Visitantes(Visiting Teachers)and you;ll get the message there
    Mensaje de maestras visitantes Marzo 2011 (YT Message march 2011)
    Hope is useful for you!!